Thursday, March 11, 2010
I'm Backkkkk
Hello all! So I've been gone physically & mentally for a while but because I have such awesome friends, I have been inspired to once again follow my passion & write. I believe I can do this all day and be content. So what does this mean? I will be making more of an effort to add new posts on a regular basis. My past posts have been deleted because I realized they were more like pages from a diary, composed of me bitching about whatever nonsense was occuring in my life, and not talking about things that actually create discussions and debates i.e. purpose of a blog. (laughing on the inside) I don't have a "theme" per se for this blog, but if I had to choose something as a label it would be "randomness." I have several topics that I know I would like to dicuss and I did have a list of them in my bberry but it was erased so from here on out everything will be off the cuff. Please feel free to share your thoughts and post comments. I love feedback & I might even be able to revise my posts & challenge my thoughts to open my eyes to newer & higher levels of thinking, eventhough I find with me, I'm already up there. ;-)
Today I'd like to talk about being emotional. As a woman from time to time, especially when aunt flo comes into town for the month, one can get really emotional. I, for one, can't stand it. In fact, I loathe it. I hate that I can be happy in the moment and the very next, crying my eyes out because of something that I typically wouldn't be bothered about. I especially hate that it's always unexpected. I can never tell when it's coming and it usually is set off by the most ridiculous things. Last night I had this experience where I was hanging out having a good ol' time and out of no where I began to well up in the eyes and tears began running down my face, in public! I have no idea WHY. One of the many reasons being a woman is difficult fellas. Just an FYI, when a woman is emotional it would be nice for you to console her, granted I am the worst person to give advice on this because when it comes to consoling ppl I feel I am the worst @ doing it. I never know what exactly to say nor do I know what to do and actually become very nervous and freaked out. So being a woman I think the best advice I can give on this it to just LISTEN. That's right, it's simple enough and when someone is emotional for whatever reason, no matter how ridiculous it may be to you, in all honesty, she probably just needs someone to listen to her bitch and vent, as we all need that sometimes. Being emotional, as much as it is a bitch, is healthy. It's our spirits' way of getting rid of toxicness & whatever we need to get rid of to maintain a healthy balance in our daily lives. The way I see it it's a necessary evil. LOL That's all for now. Tootles Loves.
-Lola
Today I'd like to talk about being emotional. As a woman from time to time, especially when aunt flo comes into town for the month, one can get really emotional. I, for one, can't stand it. In fact, I loathe it. I hate that I can be happy in the moment and the very next, crying my eyes out because of something that I typically wouldn't be bothered about. I especially hate that it's always unexpected. I can never tell when it's coming and it usually is set off by the most ridiculous things. Last night I had this experience where I was hanging out having a good ol' time and out of no where I began to well up in the eyes and tears began running down my face, in public! I have no idea WHY. One of the many reasons being a woman is difficult fellas. Just an FYI, when a woman is emotional it would be nice for you to console her, granted I am the worst person to give advice on this because when it comes to consoling ppl I feel I am the worst @ doing it. I never know what exactly to say nor do I know what to do and actually become very nervous and freaked out. So being a woman I think the best advice I can give on this it to just LISTEN. That's right, it's simple enough and when someone is emotional for whatever reason, no matter how ridiculous it may be to you, in all honesty, she probably just needs someone to listen to her bitch and vent, as we all need that sometimes. Being emotional, as much as it is a bitch, is healthy. It's our spirits' way of getting rid of toxicness & whatever we need to get rid of to maintain a healthy balance in our daily lives. The way I see it it's a necessary evil. LOL That's all for now. Tootles Loves.
-Lola
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